Will I get a girlfriend this year?
My ancap friend thinks there's a 90% chance I get a girlfriend this year if I maintain my current location and level of effort, but I'm a bit more pessemistic. A year can go by quickly.
Previously: https://manifold.markets/BenjaminIkuta/just-installed-tinder-will-i-go-on
Feel free to ask questions.
@BenjaminIkuta Met for tea. We had good conversation and exchanged contact info, but didn't do more than a brief hug hello and goodbye.
@BenjaminIkuta What’s your location? I had a lady friend ghostwrite most of my profile and the first few messages, and it worked well. I think women have different priorities around photos. Compared to men they’re less interested in how hot you look and more interested in what it signals about you.
@BenjaminIkuta Photofeeler is inadequate because its raters are not your target demographic and it rates each photo in isolation instead of the whole composition of various photos. You look handsome in your photos but you're always posing alone and the locations are terrible: a cramped convenience store, a farm, and what looks like a prison stairwell. I would suggest photos of you with friends doing interesting things & visiting interesting places. If you can get on the roof of someplace in lviv or visit a castle nearby that would be cool. And at least half of your photos should not be solo.
i suggest getting their number during the first date and texting them immediately after the first date to say it went well and that you would like to see her again. Also pull up askhole.io on your phone if you are struggling for interesting things to talk about.
@JonathanRay people here mostly use Telegram. Askhole is cool and interesting, but rather too unhinged for a first date.
@BenjaminIkuta Askhole is fine. Even if the questions are awkward you benefit from misattribution of arousal